The Japanese are becoming lonelier

In the modern society of the Japanese, interpersonal connections seem to be weakening, especially among men. Studies have shown that the proportion of men who do not spend time with friends or others is significantly higher in Japan compared to other developed countries. This reality has generated a debate about whether these men truly enjoy their solitude, if they feel it as a burden, or if they are simply pretending to enjoy it.

A recent article titled "Why Japanese Men Are the Loneliest in the World?" has put the spotlight on this problem. According to the article, Japan's "social capital," an indicator that measures trust and interpersonal relationships (according to the U.K.'s Legatum Institute, 2017 edition), ranks the country 101st out of 149 countries, making it the lowest among developed nations.

One of the most surprising data is the percentage of men who do not spend time with friends or acquaintances. In a study comparing 21 countries, Japanese men topped the list with 16.7 percent admitting not spending time with friends, compared with just 1 percent in Sweden and 4 percent in the United States.

However, this phenomenon cannot be interpreted solely as a problem of unwanted loneliness. In Japan, the culture of "おひとり様" (ohitori-sama), or enjoying activities alone, is deeply rooted. Many people find satisfaction and fulfillment in dedicating themselves to their hobbies and activities alone. For some, this lifestyle is not a sign of isolation, but a conscious choice that allows them to make better use of their time.

It is true that loneliness can have adverse effects on health, increasing the risk of mental and physical problems. However, it is crucial to distinguish between those who suffer from lack of company and those who value their independence.

To better understand this duality, research was conducted focused on "ojisan" (middle-aged and older men) who are prone to falling into loneliness due to the Japanese social structure. The aim was to investigate the true feelings of these men: Are they really enjoying their solitude or are they simply adapting to a circumstance imposed by society?

The answer to this question is complex and cannot be generalized. While some may be dealing with loneliness in a negative way, others may be finding in it a source of freedom and self-discovery. What is clear is that the perception of loneliness in Japan is multifaceted, and addressing this topic requires a deep understanding of the country's cultural norms and social dynamics.

Source: DIAMOND ONLINE